By JAN LARSON McLAUGHLIN
BG Independent News
The potluck in the basement of First Presbyterian was much like other church gatherings. The buffet was heavy with desserts. Kids were working on arts and crafts. Adults were sitting around a table playing Uno. And music played in the background.
But this gathering on Saturday was a bit different – since it was the first Pride Potluck in Bowling Green.
“This is to get people to come together and get a sense of community,” organizer Kendra Sheets said after dropping off cupcakes steeped with rainbow frosting.
Sheets and others in the local LGBTQ+ community recently created an organization called the BGOPride Association. Saturday’s potluck was the group’s inaugural event for members and their allies.
“We’re hoping it’s the first of many events. We’re here, we’re queer. Get used to it,” Sheets said with a smile.
Members are hoping to plan more events like bowling, book clubs and picnics.
Jordan Musgrave, of Bowling Green, said many in the LGBTQ+ community are still reluctant to come out. They worry about negative repercussions.
“A lot of people still have that in the back of their head – especially in this area,” Musgrave said.
So the potluck provided a way to ease people into the community. First Presbyterian Church, which is a “More Light” Christian community inspired by Christ’s inclusive love for all, provided a safe setting.
“We want families and individuals to feel welcomed,” said Dani Robertson, a member of the church.
Stationed at the buffet were First Presbyterian members Christina Guenther and Nancy Hess.
“They were looking for a space and we immediately said, ‘Come here,’” Guenther said.
“We wanted to make a good welcoming feeling from our church,” Hess said.
Members of the BG Pride group want to make people comfortable within their organization, and also throughout Bowling Green.
“Community outreach is a big part. We want to be part of the community,” Musgrave said.
As the potluck was being set up inside, Casi Parrish of Crabapple Creations was selling tie-dye clothing outside.
“I’m a member of the (LGBTQ+) community, and so is my daughter – and I wanted her to see the support there is in the community,” Parrish said.
Back inside, Elai Freed was warming up for the vocal, guitar and ukulele performance. Upon learning of the effort to start a Pride group in Bowling Green, Freed was pleased.
“I thought that was brilliant,” said Freed, who graduated from Bowling Green State University last year and misses the LGBTQ+ support that came from BGSU.
“I am part of the LGBT community,” Freed said. “Getting active in the community is important.”
Sheets said she realizes that many people who are LGBTQ+ still don’t feel safe coming out to their families and others. She is hoping events like Saturday’s potluck will be helpful and provide safe spaces.
“We’re hoping to get people comfortable coming out,” Sheets said.
Anyone wanting to reach out may go to the Facebook page of The BGOPride Association.
“My inbox is always open to anybody who wants to talk about it,” Sheets said.
