Wood County Children’s Services

Pinwheels tell stories of child abuse, neglect in every community

By JAN LARSON McLAUGHLIN BG Independent News As they watched the pinwheels spin in the breeze, the little children had no inkling of the real reason they were planting 884 in the ground on Wednesday morning. The 884 pinwheels represent the number of child abuse and neglect investigations conducted last year by Wood County Children’s Services. The number is a small increase from the 873 cases from the year before. As Susie Dunn, of Dunn’s Kiddie Kare, prepared the children for their role in posting the pinwheels, she explained that not all children have safe homes. “I explained it’s to help boys and girls who are sad and may not have a happy home,” Dunn said. This year the blue and silver pinwheels bear testament along Ohio 25 where motorists will easily see them, in the front yard of Thayer Ford/Nissan, 18039 Dixie Highway, Bowling Green. The annual display of pinwheels is part of Child Abuse Awareness Month in April. Field of pinwheels “This is to bring about awareness for child abuse and neglect – that it happens in every community,” said Sandi Carsey, administrator of Wood County Protective Services. The display serves as a reminder that not all children have carefree and loving lives. In addition to the countywide pinwheel field on Route 25, individual displays are once again being planted in communities to show the number of cases in each school district. In Bowling Green, that number is 234 abuse or neglect investigations last year – up from 198 the year before. Drug use by parents continues to be a factor in many of the cases. “Opiates are a big one, but we’re starting to see cocaine again,” Carsey said. The pinwheels are a visual reminder that the public needs to notify authorities about child abuse and neglect. “These are a reminder for all of us who get too busy in our regular lives to know what kids go through,” Children’s Resource Center Executive Director Janelle LaFond said. “The shiny pinwheels really catch your eye.” After helping the preschoolers plant the pinwheels, Wood County Prosecuting Attorney Paul Dobson talked about the importance of the display. Wood County Prosecuting Attorney Paul Dobson helps a preschooler with pinwheels. “It’s important to bring attention and awareness to the horrible situations some kids face,” he said. Officials working on child abuse and neglect cases have to make tough decisions on separating, educating and assisting families. “This helps bring awareness to that,” Dobson said. With a field of spinning pinwheels next to her, Pat Limes said she attended the event because of her work with the Bowling Green Women’s Club on domestic violence. “There’s just no excuse for child abuse,” Limes said, watching the young children. “They’re the ones who suffer in the long run from domestic violence.” Area schools will have displays on their campuses, with the number of pinwheels indicating the number of families in the district assisted by Wood County Children’s Services. The breakdown per district is: Bowling Green – 234 ; Eastwood – 44; Elmwood – 46; Fostoria – 31; Lake – 68; Lakota – 32; McComb – 8; North Baltimore – 67; Northwood – 52; Otsego – 60; Perrysburg – 100; and Rossford – 102; Other – 40. The pinwheels will be on display throughout the month of April. Among last year’s investigation numbers were cases involving: physical abuse, 176; sexual abuse, 142; neglect, 492; and emotional abuse, 21. Drugs were involved in 260 of the cases.

Foster family opens home and hearts to 19 children

By JAN LARSON McLAUGHLIN BG Independent News   Some parents dream of becoming empty nesters. Quiet dinners, no pediatrician appointments, less hectic households. But Chris and Melanie Feather, of Grand Rapids, felt something was missing when their four boys grew up and moved on. So they took a bold step – bigger than buying an RV or a warm weather winter retreat – they became foster parents. “We had empty rooms,” Melanie said. “We really felt that was something we needed to do.” That was seven years and 19 children ago. “I love kids. I could probably do this forever,” Melanie said, giving a sideways glance at Chris to check his reaction. It took a few seconds, but then her husband’s straight face broke into a big silly grin. The couple, who was recently named Wood County Children Services Foster Parents of the Year, has taken in children ranging from newborns to 17-year-olds. So they now have four adult children, one adopted, plus six biological grandchildren, and “a lot of honorary” grandchildren. “I always think there’s somebody else out there who needs us,” Chris said. “There are a lot of kids who need love,” Melanie said. “They come in as strangers and leave as family.” “Or they don’t leave,” Chris said, referring to all the kids that stay in contact with the Feather family. “It makes my heart happy,” Melanie said, smiling. The Feathers readily admit the job of foster parenting isn’t easy. It ranges from fun and a blessing, to frustrating and nearly maddening – and that can be all in one day. But they try to stay focused on the goal. They are in this to get kids through rough patches in their lives that are no fault of their own. Some children don’t want to be removed from their families, no matter how bad that environment might be. “Some of the kids are mad they are in foster care,” Melanie said. She and Chris explain to the children that they realize they aren’t their parents. “But we’ll be their mom and dad as long as they need us to be.” Chris, a school bus driver and farmer, learned early on what many kids need. “The kids just want an adult’s attention,” he said. They want consistency and unconditional love. They have chores, like cleaning their bedrooms, setting the table, unloading the dishwasher. “Some of them just appreciate having a regular meal,” Melanie said. “They want somebody to talk to, who listens to what they say,” she added. And they seem to appreciate the fact that the Feathers make a big deal out of the kids’ birthdays and holidays, Chris said. Melanie, who works in the fiscal department at the Wood County Educational Service Center, at first struggled with handling girls after raising four sons. She would caution the girls that her hair styling skills were lacking, unless she consulted the Internet. Over the years, the couple has learned to “never say never.” “After the first teen, we said we’d never do that again,” Melanie said. But that didn’t last long. “We said we’d never take more than two,” at once. But they now have four foster kids, ranging from age 4 to 15 ½. There have been times that the Feathers have nearly given up on some kids – almost. “We almost gave three back. We thought about it,” Melanie said. But they stuck by them, and were glad they did. The Feathers can see the good in children, even if their behavior is challenging, said Shelby Smith, who coordinates the foster care program with Wood County…

County voters support child, elder protective services

By JAN LARSON McLAUGHLIN BG Independent News   Voters responded to the increasing numbers of child abuse and neglect in Wood County by passing the 1.3-mill renewal levy for Human Services on Tuesday. The Wood County Human Services levy passed with nearly 68 percent of the votes (19,126 to 9,151.) That wide margin of approval was welcome news to Sandi Carsey, administrator of Wood County Children’s Services. “I think that people understand that child protection and protection of the elderly is very important,” Carsey said. “Wood County has always been very supportive,” she added. Since the levy was last passed 10 years ago, Wood County has seen six deaths of children under 3 years old due to abuse. Five suffered from head trauma, and one was smothered. There are no plans to use the levy funding to add staff. A pressing need is to provide safe placements for children removed from their homes. “The number of kids in care has gone up drastically,” Carsey said. Wood County is on its way to setting a record for 2017, as the numbers of child abuse and neglect cases continue to grow. Since 1987, the Children’s Services and Adult Protective Services portions of the agency have relied on the 1.3 mills to support their work. The 10-year levy generates $3.7 million a year, and costs the owner of a $100,000 home about $36 a year. The funding provides for child abuse and neglect investigations and, if needed, placement of children in foster homes or other settings. The levy also supports elder services, such as home health aides, homemaker services and investigations of elder abuse and neglect. The needs of the protective services at both ends of the age spectrum continue to increase. Following are the statistics for 2016: 894 child abuse investigations. 260 elder abuse investigations. 212 of the child abuse investigations involved drugs. 142 of the investigations were child sexual abuse investigations. 59 children were placed in substitute care such as foster care or group homes. And the numbers look even worse for 2017. The reasons may be two-fold, Carsey said. In recent years, the opiate crisis has led to more cases, and there has been a real push for the public to report abuse and neglect concerns. “Last year in September, we had 35 children in foster care. This year we have 50,” Carsey said, adding that her office is currently trying to recruit more foster families. Meanwhile, the number of elder abuse and neglect cases is expected to pass 300 this year, she added. “We appreciate the county’s support,” Carsey said.

Playground gives foster kids place to play with parents

By JAN LARSON McLAUGHLIN BG Independent News   A patch of grass outside Wood County Children’s Services has been turned into a wonderland for foster children. With the help of local service organizations and the county commissioners, a playground has been constructed on the grounds of Wood County Job and Family Services on East Gypsy Lane Road. The playground is to be used by foster children visiting with their birth families. “It’s for family visitation, so kids and their parents can play together in a natural environment,” explained Sandi Carsey, administrator of Wood County Children’s Services. During the average week, the Children’s Services office sees about 10 families come to the agency for supervised visitation with children who have been placed in foster care. “It’s critical that kids have contact with their families,” especially if the goal is reunification in the future, Carsey said. “The kids are attached to their families. They need to see them. They need to maintain those relationships,” she said. And the playground gives children an opportunity to do what kids do with their families – go down slides, climb equipment, be pushed on swings. In the past, Wood County Children’s Services used the Wood Lane facilities for visitation, since there was no space available at Children’s Services. But then an annex was added to Wood County Job and Family Services. The additional space gave families inside room for visits, but no outdoor play area. “The families really liked having the playground” at Wood Lane, Carsey said. So area organizations were approached about donating to the playground project. Money was contributed by Modern Woodmen, Bowling Green Exchange Club, and Perrysburg Rotary Club. Other funding was provided by the Wood County Commissioners, to be paid back by Wood County Job and Family Services. The cost for the playground equipment was $52,000. But with the addition of rubber flooring for safety, the total price was $120,000. The playground has equipment designed for ages 2 to 12, plus a basketball hoop for older children.